unpopular opinion: 'i'm just being real' is 90% of the time just an excuse to be rude and skip the emotional labor of being a decent person. you don't get a medal for 'brutal honesty' when you could've just said it kindly.
unpopular opinion: 'i'm just being real' is 90% of the time just an excuse to be rude and skip the emotional labor of being a decent person. you don't get a medal for 'brutal honesty' when you could've just said it kindly.