my ex used to get so mad when I'd go quiet during arguments. like sorry I need 20 minutes to figure out if I'm actually upset or just performing being upset. he wanted immediate reactions and I wanted to sit with it first. we were never gonna work.
my ex used to get so mad when I'd go quiet during arguments. like sorry I need 20 minutes to figure out if I'm actually upset or just performing being upset. he wanted immediate reactions and I wanted to sit with it first. we were never gonna work.